July 30th, 2009 
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Stress can take a major toll on your sex life.
For a man, work and money-related stress is particularly likely to take its toll on libido.
A woman’s, stress usually starts at home, and including her relationship, which sends her sexual desire packing.
Sex isn’t an issue unless a couple isn’t having any.
In today’s busy world, many couples find themselves juggling a hectic work life with an equally hectic home life. From kids to careers to simply getting enough sleep, it’s all too easy for couples to allow their relationships to fall off the to-do list.
We always wanted to have great friend who can listen, speak, talk, play, share and can do all that which a real friend is for. We always search for a better friend and forget that we can find best friend in our partner. Husband and wife should always treat themselves as a true friend and not just like boring partners. They should share all the things which we want to share with our friends, always share each and every happening around you to make your partner feel happy and, feel that you are not hiding the things from them. In this way they will not have any complains of not knowing each others secret.
Whether they’re arguing or allowing resentment to build, a couple will drift further away from physical intimacy, which is an important part of reconnecting and buffering stress. As they start to feel more disconnected, they’re not apt to feel very sexual, and a destructive cycle takes over. One or both partners may turn to sex-substitutes, which often come in the form of comfort eating, alcohol and drug use, or, if the problem goes on too long infidelity. These paths are no solution, drinking too much can result in sexual dysfunction, which will only make matters worse. Alcohol interferes with erectile function, lubrication and sexual desire, as do other common treatments for too much stress, antidepressants and sedatives.
Many men respond by fighting, arguing triggers the brain’s fight or flight response system. and it’s this confrontational approach raises one’s heart rate, increases blood pressure and plays a big role in cardiac disease. The opposite reaction, fight, can be just as harmful, if not worse, for women. It leads to self-silencing: a bottling-up of emotions that causes anxiety, depression and a cascade of unhealthy behaviors
The problem is that even if a couple shares a strong partnership as parents, that relationship if sexless can become vulnerable. Sex isn’t an issue unless a couple isn’t having any! Then it rapidly becomes the specters that no one talks about. When one partner has a higher sex drive than the other the lack of physical intimacy becomes a source of resentment resulting in added stress further increasing the stress and in turn further pushing sex down the list.
Research shows sex is one of the main causes couples argue, often above money, housework and other common sources of conflict. Sex is also one of those subjects that women tend to keep bottled up because they’re afraid of eliciting an angry reaction.
Start a new routine of your life together, and start working from there. Soon the stress in your relationship will disappear which in turn will enable you to deal better with life. You will find stress and that poisonous negative atmosphere around you will rapidly reverse into a positive beneficial experience, you will feel happier, you’ll be a more connected, feel supported.
How many of you realize that stress is totally linked to how much sex you may or may not be having?
When you have had a particularly stressful week at work the best thing to do to get off to a good weekend is to ring your partner tell them to meet you at home and have a long loving sex session.It is also important to understand that sex is the greatest natural stress reliever. And in this way your stressful week and all the pains you had during the week will be converted into a peace full and happy night
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